7.30.2007

UNC Trip in Pictures

Here is the photojournalistic tour of our trek through the UNC campus back on the Fourth of July. Sorry for the delays!

Welcome to UNC!
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This is the memorial to the slaves who literally helped to build the university in the 1700's. It's about the width of a normal dinner table, and 2 feet off the ground. While the sentiment is nice, I think they could have been a little more elaborate, given the circumstances. What do I know, though? I'm just an uppity Yankee.
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I probably should have read the inscription on this statue more closely. Let's say it's an American Revolution tribute thing. I think that's right. Or it could be the Confederacy. We are in the south, you know.

Edit: Yup, it's a Confederate soldier.
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Erin and I are retarded. You all know this.
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This is the Old Well. It is their big campus landmark...you can buy lots of UNC paraphrenalia with the logo on it. Hell, it's even got its own Wikipedia page.
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The bell tower.
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Now this is officially the world's largest statue of a ram. I'm sure Dodge is in talks to buy it. It sits outside the football stadium. No one has yet been able to explain to my satisfaction why the mascot is a ram, but then again, I don't know why the Hurricanes have Sebastian the Ibis. Some things are not meant for man to comprehend.
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Various pictures inside the stadium. It's a glorified high school field, but it's very nice looking.
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Bad timing for an ankle injury.
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A few pics inside the Dean Dome. There was a girls' high school basketball camp going on, which limited a few of the floor shots.
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Erin and Moose, chilling in the stands.
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Me and Moose, on the way out.
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7.16.2007

Carolina Randomness: Vee-hick-ul Edition

The last time I posted random stuff about the Charlotte area, I rushed it. I hadn't written in a few days, and I wanted to get something up. So, I missed a few things that I wanted to point out. The goal here is to give you all the flavor of NC, so I'll try to take some more time with each of these from here on out.

With that in mind, here are some more observations about this town:

1) "Vehicle" is pronounced "Vee-hick-ul." I know this, because ever radio car ad has some announcer who sounds like he would have been a good fit in O Brother Where Art Thou
screaming about the "waihd selection of vee-hick-uls" on the lot.

2) I have never in my life seen a larger concentration of BMWs, Lexuses, and Benzes. There is some serious money in this town. I just gotta figure out where it is. As I look, I'm sure I will stumble across a few hundred cars that are worth more than my life. It's stunning.

3) Carolinains love themselves some speed bumps. Every parking lot in the town has a speed bump every forty feet. Honestly, I have driven over more speed bumps in the last two and a half weeks than I did in my entire life up to now. I understand the need to control speed in parking lots, but they go just a bit too far. On one speed bump in my parking lot, you need a team of Sherpa guides and twelve oxygen cannisters to get over the top. How do I know that it's too high? It causes a TrailBlazer that is driving under 5 mph to bottom out.

4) At gym, I have seen the following colleges represented on shirts and hats: Michigan, OSU, Yale, Auburn, Georgia, Alabama, Georgetown, UCLA, and Tennessee. What haven't I seen? UNC or NCState. Thought I've seen a few car stickers, I've seen a lot more Buckeye gear than Tar Heel gear on people in this town so far. The only explanation I have for this is that I've been told that no one is really from Charlotte. I guess this city is North Carolina's answer to Houston. Lots of money, no natives.

That's what I got for now.

7.13.2007

Carolina Randomness

OK, so that last entry is rather sentimental. Sorry for the change of pace, but I’m sure that’ll happen a few times.

Moving on…I just figured that I’d share a few observations about my little area of the country here.

1) Radio sucks here. At least 60% of the stations here are either country or gospel. Rush Limbaugh is on FM. There is one sports radio station with no national feed (NASCAR, the Braves, ACC Basketball…that’s it). There are three country music stations on the AM dial…I didn’t know there was still music on AM. There is one rock station, and there are at least four Nickelback and Red Hot Chili Peppers songs per hour. Methinks I’ll be investing in XM if I ever want to hear “new” or “emerging” artists again.
2) Driving is an adventure. If there is an opening, people will turn out from side streets. I don’t mean “if there is a reasonable opening,” I just mean “if there is an opening.” You can’t coast here, because you have to be very vigilant at all times. Drivers here are worse than pedestrians in Ann Arbor.
3) Speed limits are suggestions. On the main highway that circles the city (I-485), the posted limit is 60 MPH. The reality, however, is that people are driving at speeds ranging from 50 MPH to 85 MPH.
4) The weather here reminds me of Jamaica. While on our honeymoon, we found that it rained every day at about 1:00 p.m. When it came down, it seemed like a hurricane: heavy winds and fierce downpours. It would end after about half an hour, and go right back to being hot and sunny. It’s been the same way here. At least half of the days, there have been serious storms, complete with heavy rain and near constant thunder. Like Jamaica, they always occur in the afternoon and never for more than 40 minutes.
5) Every fast food place down here can only advertise three products: fried chicken, biscuits, or sweet tea. We’ll still see the commercials that run nationally for Big Macs or Whoppers, but anything that is local (even from major chains like McDonalds) invariably focuses on chicken, biscuits, and tea.

That’s it for now.

7.11.2007

What it all means...

What it all means to me. Yeesh…that’s a big topic, eh? A million philosophers pondering for a million years, and all that good stuff. No matter, that’s the subject that has been on my mind for a while now. We’ve pulled up stakes, and moved hundreds of miles away, leaving behind all that is comfortable and known. Michigan football. Hawaiians at Charley’s. Conor O’Neill’s. The hillbilly bar on I-94. The Blind Pig. State Street in Ann Arbor, Main Street in Royal Oak, Michigan Avenue in Dearborn. The bar that we met at. The condo that I proposed in. The church that we got married in. The friends and family that were with us through that journey and a hundred others.

All left behind. Why?

In the face of a question like that, I tempted to call on my inner Blutarsky and say “::Belch:: Why not?” Unfortunately, that answer just isn’t entirely satisfying when put up against a question of this magnitude.

To me, this trip represents a lot of new starts. First and foremost, it’s a new beginning for Erin and me. It’s funny to think of having a new start after six weeks of marriage, but it really is. Here, we don’t have a lot of our old outlets. I’m not heading to Comerica Park and the State Bar, and she isn’t going off to Big Boy. Even though we know a couple of people here, we really are on our own to begin with.

We have to rely on each other and be there for one another. Even though we can still stay in touch with our friends and family by e-mail and phone (and rambling blogs), we are really in this alone. It’s an exciting thought, even if it is a little scary. Am I going to be patient enough to help her though the feelings of loneliness? Am I going to grow too dependant on her? Are we going to drive each other nuts with our proximity?

It’s a real challenge for our relationship. The good thing is that I believe that we are strong enough to get through it, and to thrive. I think that being together in this situation is ultimately going to bring us closer together, and that’s something that I am really excited about.

We also get to make new memories in a new location. I look at a place like Conor O’Neill’s. That restaurant will always be special to me because we had our rehearsal dinner there. But I also think of nights that Brandon and I drank with Hart, Grouch, JT, and their associated women. I remember being out there with Bunn when he picked up a 40 year old woman. Every place in Ann Arbor has memories that precede our relationship. Now, every place we go to is a new experience, unique to us. I’ve loved hitting new restaurants on a whim and having the experience of loving or hating it not be influenced by past events. Even though I can’t wait to sit down at the Brown Jug and yell at Chandler for ordering P’zones, I’m thoroughly enjoying the process of exploration with her.

It’s not just our relationship that is facing a new start though. My career begins anew here. In Michigan, I was prepared to go to school on a full-time basis and find part-time work to learn new skills and improve myself. The idea was that in two years when I finish, there would be a better job market in the state, and I would be in a better position to take advantage of it.

Out here, however, jobs are abundant. Unemployment is low and economic growth is high…this helps to make for a much better job climate. In the last two weeks, I’ve applied to more jobs out here that I would be excited about than I did in two months of looking in Michigan.

What I hope this ultimately means is that I can take a job that I can succeed and learn in, while taking part-time classes at night. I won’t be trapped into taking a position that is not ideal just because I’m afraid that nothing else will come up. This should go a long way towards making me happier with my career (obviously).

I know that in our final months in Michigan, I was growing more and more frustrated at work, which was having a negative impact on my life. That’s gone now, and as long as I stick to the plan, it should be gone for good. The negative feelings and the perception of stagnation are gone, and I’m ready to really move things along. That is a tremendous feeling, and one that I worried I wouldn’t see for a long time in Michigan.

This move also represents a great opportunity for Erin. She is in a position of more responsibility, and one of greater opportunity. She gets to test herself again, and see how well she can grow a smaller office with big potential. If she is successful (and with her track record, I wouldn’t bet against it), the sky is the limit at her company. While some guys may have an issue with their wives being in a position of importance and greater financial means, I am all for it. Hey, if she makes VP at a good age, I’m lobbying to become a stay-at-home husband.

I’ve mentioned some of the challenges, and I don’t mean to downplay them. I know there will be tough times adjusting. I know there will be days that I hate my job. I know that things will happen that will make me ask why the hell we moved from such a comfortable location. I know this, and I’m still going on with it. I have a tremendous sense of optimism about how Erin and I will grow and adapt to these new challenges.

So really...in the end, what does this move mean to me? It means the chance to grow and learn and thrive and be happy with the woman I love. I know that the attitude I take through this journey will go a long way to determining how successful it is. I know that hope is a good thing…maybe the best of things. And no good thing ever dies.

7.06.2007

Alumni Bar

About a week before we moved, I got an invitation on Facebook to join the UM Young Alumni Club for a happy hour in Uptown (which is the name of the downtown district...I don't know why). Unfortunately, the gathering was still while we were in Michigan. However, I made sure to copy down the name of the bar for future reference.

We decided to give the place a try on Tuesday evening. Since we were still without furniture and cooking implements, we knew we had to go out somewhere…why not the Michigan bar? I called Dru and Kate, who had gotten in from their honeymoon the day before, and invited them to join us.

Sadly, there are no pictures of this place online, and I didn’t think to take any. It’s unfortunate, because it’s a very cool establishment. The interior is dark wood, with high tables and a dim atmosphere. The ceilings are high, giving the impression of a lot of space. There are large TVs all over, and the bar sits right in the middle of the floor. There is also a large patio for outdoor eating, but we didn’t check that out much.

The Décor is all sports. There is a neon block M, a Michigan flag, and a “Those who stay will be champions” banner hanging on the walls. There is also an abundance of Buffalo Bills and Sabres paraphernalia. They seem to do well catering to the out of town crowds.

The food was really good...standard pub fare and generally unhealthy stuff...but took a long time to come to us. A party of six in a half-empty restaurant should be able to get burgers and sandwiches in under 35 minutes. Since we were there to talk and BS as much as anything, the wait didn’t bother us too badly.

In all, while Tavern on the Tracks won’t blow anyone away for being the greatest restaurant/sports bar in the history of man, it seems an ideal place to pass two or three hours with beer and friends. It will be a must-see whenever you all come out.

Chapel Hill

The idea of the trip came up about five weeks ago. Once it became clear that Erin and I were moving to North Carolina and that the Peabodys would be coming with us, we started plotting out a day-long trek to Chapel Hill. Peabody has an odd obsession with that school, and I just like to see college campuses. Add in the fact that Amy was able to drive in from Raleigh, and we were sold on the idea.

So, on the Fourth of July, we all got up and hit the road at 8:30 in the morning. We piled in the truck and set off for the highway. In all, the drive took a little over two hours. As we crossed 150+ miles of North Carolina, we came to see more of what I noted earlier: smooth roads, flowerbeds, and lots of trees. This time, however, we saw something new.

I was cruising along in the left lane, going about 75 in a 60 when I saw the state trooper in the median. Shit. I knew I was going to wind up busted here. Even though I had been with the flow of traffic just a few minutes prior, I was definitely the fastest one around right at that time. I tapped the brake and hoped to at least slow down a few miles per hour before I got tagged by the radar. I glanced at the Crown Vic as we drove by, and noticed something unusual. There was nobody in it.

Now, this car wasn’t just pulled over to the side of the road. It was in the median, angled toward the eastbound traffic. It was just over a hill, almost sneaking up on us like any other speed trap. I began to wonder if somewhere along the highway, we would find a disembodied corpse of a North Carolina state trooper.

I had somewhat dismissed the thoughts of the car after a few minutes…it was simply one of those things that disappears from your memory unless you have a reason to remember it. Like seeing another trooper-mobile twenty minutes later. Then a third once we got onto I-40. Then a fourth right before the Chapel Hill exit. Apparently, this is how North Carolina prevents people from speeding…they park official state police vehicles in the median and hope that it causes you to slow down. We did see one car pulled over by a real-life trooper on the return trip, so it appears that while the odds may be on your side, there still is the risk of getting nailed.

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We arrived on Franklin Street in Chapel Hill a few minutes before 11:00. Franklin Street would be the loose equivalent of South University, or Grand River in East Lansing. Lots of shops, restaurants, coffee houses, and the like, forming one border of the campus. We window shopped for a few minutes, taking note of the types of stores that were around.

A few minutes later, Amy arrived, and we all decided that we were hungry. We went to Top of the Hill, a restaurant/brewery a block away. We sat out on a third floor, covered porch. The day was warm, but we were shaded and under a ceiling fan, so the temperature was almost unnoticeable. Beers and burgers and po’ boys came to the table and were all promptly demolished.

From the menu, we learned that the restaurant was one of the most successful in town, winning numerous awards in the last twelve years. What amused me was that the owners only bought the space and opened the restaurant in order to prevent TGIFriday’s from opening at that intersection. Score one for local businesses. I then looked out from our balcony and saw Starbucks, Qdoba, Quiznos, and a few other chain eateries. I guess the spread of the chains can only be slowed for so long.


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After lunch, and a stop by the NC bookstores where I procured a Tar Heels shot glass, we set off to walk through campus. This narrative will be picked up in much more detail next week when I can post the pictures along with it.

Suffice it to say, UNC has a gorgeous campus. The school was founded in 1795 as the first public university, and some of the buildings go back almost that far. There is a great mixture of classic and modern architecture, with everything seeming to blend together. There are lots of open spaces, green grass, and shade cover. There are also a lot of hills and little roads and paths that don’t run straight. This makes navigating the campus to be a bitch. That’s why we spent almost three hours covering about seven miles in 90+ degree heat that day.

But like I said, I’ll save that until I can get pictures up on Monday.

7.02.2007

In my mind...

“Look, it just hit 92,” Peabody said, while pointing to the temperature gauge on the dashboard. I just grumbled and cast a quick eye toward the GPS, trying to figure out if I had time to swing left and pass some traffic before the next exit. Since Erin and Amanda were in the car behind me, I decided to just be patient. The next highway was coming up in under two miles anyway.

I stretched out my arms, feeling the sweaty skin pull away from the leather interior. The wind roared through front seat of the car, causing my left ear to go partially deaf. The sun continued to beat down on the left side of the car, further scorching my arm. The ten plus hours I had spent sitting in the driver’s seat so far was causing my ass to go numb. My back was seizing up after three straight nights of sleeping on the floor. We were on mile 670 of the drive, and there was no air conditioning. I was miserable.

I moved into the exit ramp, and prepared to hop onto the last freeway of the day. The freeway that would take me to my new home.

“Hey. Now it’s 93!”

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Throughout the day, I had been watching the temperatures steadily climb from a comfortable 51 degrees to the low 90s. Certainly, a good part of the dramatic climb was due to the fact that we left Michigan at 5:15 a.m.

The alarms went off in our nearly-empty condo at 3:30 a.m…a scant five hours after going to sleep. I got up and splashed water on my face, taking a mental inventory of what still needed to be done. After coming home from the last meal with Erin’s family the afternoon before, I had shifted into gear.

Everything that was left from the movers was put into boxes and suitcases. The few things that we would need on Sunday morning were grouped together for easy packing the next morning. The small mountain of garbage that was generated from the moving efforts was set out for the Monday morning pick up. The furniture and goods that we were leaving behind for the Salvation Army were arranged in the garage to provide easy access.

Still, work remained. I had overestimated the amount of space we had in the cars, and had to pack very carefully. The cats had to be put in their crates, the litter box cleaned, the food and water packed away with easy access. A few dirty areas of the condo still needed to be cleaned. Our bedding had to be folded and forced into the cars.

I walked back into living as Erin began to get up. After a brief hug and a few laments about the hour, she sprang into action inside as I hauled suitcases and boxes to the cars. An hour passed by, and I walked into the living room, seeing that all that was left was a bag of trash and the cat carriers.


I put my arms around Erin as we took our last look around the place that we had called home for a year and a half. The place where we adopted a cat together. The place where we lived together for the first time. The place where I proposed to her.

Tears flowed down Erin’s cheeks for a brief moment, and then it was over. It was time to leave.

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The drive went by fairly quickly. We stopped after 130 miles or so for some breakfast. The next stop was 190 miles later for gas…I made sure that we had crossed out of Ohio and into West Virginia before I handed over enough money to fill up two cars.

During that time, the scenery gradually improved. As we moved from Michigan through Ohio, the road was primarily flat, straight, and without any interesting features. In the southeastern part of Ohio, however, the terrain began to take shape. Hills and curves became the norm on the road. Forests full of trees materialized. A doe stood on the side of the road, drinking from a small pond, oblivious to the traffic that flew by twenty feet away.

Nothing, however, could have prepared me for West Virginia. Rolling through the Appalachians, spectacular views were the norm. We saw lakes and rivers. We saw rounded, tree covered mountains. We saw lush valleys full of vegetation. We even saw the golden dome of the West Virginia state capitol.

Right as the climbs and descents and twists and turns of the mountains began to wear on me, we passed into Virginia. Almost immediately, the mountains began to flatten out some. Oh, there were still peaks and valleys (and a few tunnels for good measure), but the elevation and directional changes were coming less frequently.

After a final stop for lunch and gas, we drove on through Virginia and entered North Carolina.

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As we passed the sign announcing the state line, I turned to Peabody and officially welcomed him to my state. After all, we Carolinians are known for our southern hospitality. Not like you Yankee bastards.

The first thing I noticed was the giant grove of yellow wildflowers growing in the median. I then saw that similar flower beds were set up every few miles in the medians, and along the highway entrance and exit ramps. It was a minor touch, to be sure. The natural views were still spectacular, even if they weren’t from several thousand feet up, as they were in West Virginia.

Nonetheless, the beauty of the flowers struck me. I was absurdly pleased by the thought and effort that went into them. Maybe I was just glad that the road wasn’t full of potholes, and the flowers weren’t orange construction barrels. Whatever the case, my excitement level increased, as did the temperatures.

Ever since leaving the mountains, the temperature had gone up fifteen degrees in a little over an hour. With no A/C, it was noticeable. I constantly peeled myself off the seat, and anticipated the cool blast of the air conditioning in my new apartment.

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Finally. The drive was over. The lease was signed. The checks were passed over. The keys were given to us. The cats were set free. The luggage was unloaded. The cool air washed over my body. I sat back into the reclining camping chair that would serve as the centerpiece of the furniture for the next day or two and closed my eyes briefly.

After taking in a deep breath, I looked around. I had set the TV on the small island diving the kitchen from the living room. Beyond that, the kitchen, with it’s bleached oak cabinetry and white appliance and countertops spread out, creating an open space to cook. To the left of the kitchen was a large utility room with washer and dryer and two hiding cats. The living room, with its cathedral ceilings and cream-colored walls, stretched out, giving us lots of open space. On the other end of the apartment, the two bedrooms and two bathrooms sat empty, save for a few suitcases and assorted toiletries.

A season one episode of The Simpsons was in the DVD player. Peabody sat to my left, alternately watching the show and perusing his college football preview magazines. The women had run to Blockbuster to get us movies for the evening, since the cable was not yet installed. The pizza was ordered, and my mouth was watering in anticipation.

I kicked up the footrest on my camping chair again, and leaned as far back as it would allow. While scientists on the TV debated about whether Homer was a “sub-normal human” or a “brilliant beast”, I just smiled.

The next chapter of my life was beginning, and we were only on page one.